As for me, I take both. Past that had put me in such horrible condition I take it as guidance for my future. Current that helps me to develop I take it as path to my future. Alhamdullilah I tolerate much now days, I hardly swore. That is a good thing.I dont argue much on others decision when it is well related to me. I accept thing with the way it is & I avoid recapping the past.
Eventhough I am incomplete, I am blessed for having such contented feeling. When you are appreciating others and satisfy with what you own right now your life just gonna be super smooth . So there is always a point of doing something. Having family, frents & loverboy meant so much to me. Oh maybe not to you, but yes to me ;)